How To Resolve Problems & Prevent To Be Fight Or Argument ?

Nowadays Person Becoming Less Affectionate Not Only Towards their Partners but to Other Person Too! 

Everywhere people now need more of a concern of psychiatrist counselling than being able to solve & bring change in mindsets by ownself... 

For sure you should know that Every Relation Go through Good Times ! Accept it... 

                 

1- Patience & Wait For Communication-   Make your Partner Interested to talk to you. Well it depends how you 2 have strong bond but yes you know your partner so act accordingly. Some people are like even though the other person is just advicing something or they are talking at but the other person suddenly take up fight as arise through arguments. 

This is a common problem what most couple face. So when you see flames rising up atleast one of you should be cool to take it easy. 

"Always noticing your partner's act during fight is important but don't say like you do it always"

# You can make your partner interested By :

Say lightly in a cool romantic way get closer to him & make him know how much you love him Or play a music that connects both of your memories.. 

Basic thing is elevate their mood then talk say this is important but yeah not so serious ,both of you can talk & resolve. 

 2- Your Partner doesn't want to listen-  Firstly you know your partner's pattern of anger from previous fights etc..  

Give them the space & at the same time send 1 or 2 sweet text messages & see if they cool up in 2-3 days more than that is not healthy in a relationship- If it happens, then surely it shows disrespect towards the partner... 

Also you shouldn't accept being ignored for 4-5 days or a week. 

You ask when they contact you that is it makes them happy without any communication? 

If no then it's good you both talk & resolving will be quicker by talking about the issue than just sitting- Say this they may understand. 

Say them how much you get hurt by such activity of not talking by your partner. 

          

        

3- Even though Your Partner Doesn't Change- Listen carefully If Someone Doesn't Want To No one Can Change The person.. 

 Either You Too show your Angry side too act strongly when after a days they contact you 

            OR

Tell everything whether politely or aggressively & then you too step aside & don't receive their call , don't call or text - 

  Because they will also feel the pain ... Then ask them how they felt this same thing you experience everytime when they do it. 

This may change your partner.  

4- If your Partner Listens To You -  Then it's actually good someone who listens means will understand too.. This is a real sign that your partner feels for you when you need them. 

 Start your conversion like how's their day & how much you miss them. Then tell them that- 

# I believe that we will be happy always

#Things will be easier if your partner listen to you mindfully about your feelings on the matter & also let's focus on solution say like that. 

#Also say them that their (your partner) views also matter so they should too share their thoughts.

 

It will surely start your conversation in a good way.. 

         

   

 5- If they just say I understand & stop you from saying further-  In such a way the push button, you first calm them down & say that you genuinely want your relationship to be good so they need to understand : So further they will not hurt you in such way & destroy a beautiful relationship. 

But sometimes you can also skip it if the thing you are fighting for is not so important to you.

 Also see your partner's mood when they come home & accordingly hold on things a little more for correct time to explain things.