Do you Really love your partner?

Do you truly Love With Whom You Are?It's  not  strange so many people even in a long term relation don't really in love... 

It sounds crappy right.. People mislead their attachments to love... How many uncountable divorces, breakups & toxic relationships in this technically globalized era is not a joke! 

Most people just develop Fear that Whether their relationship is at verge of dark end or being in a toxic relation...Well you May be but to be very Clear In Every Relation issues like Fight Or Disrespect by their Partners... That's A part of Relation. 

 If you feel that your partner is sincere & these days he acts quite aggressive-- 

Whether he is piled up with heavy work schedule or is in stress due to some matter... If no such then talk way nicely or Sometime just let it go & see if it happens frequently. Then dear you try to say your feelings regarding how he treat you... If he agrees then forgive or if he tells you that he will consider & change so it's truely well. 

LOVE NEEDS TO BE NURTURED & TAKES TIME, IF YOU ARE READY MEANS YOU TRULY LOVE YOUR PARTNER. 

But  how much  to  Endure is A question of interest to many.... See for Effort from Other person too. Yeah truthfully you can feel it or if they commit mistake also they say sorry & as time pass on you see that they don't make repeat mistakes... It means YOU ARE LUCKY

State from very Start what Is Disrespectful For You & see If the Other person Also give you Response - But Don't take Very seriously As sometimes it naturally happens during Anger.. After some time let your partner understand & if They too repent that then appreciate it. 

In a toxic relation, mostly ignorance, doubt, jealousy, verbal abuse are over heels & most important is What Your Partner Don't Want to Talk for Days Or Fear To Express Feelings & Even important Is They Never Understand Why you Are Hurt(may bcz they don't consider you Important or It doesn't effect them) & Repeatedly bring upon Past mistakes, or bad about your family usually the Fire pot Blame game takes over... & too Feel the same are simply what stings on... Mistakes repeating & Don't even feeling bad... So you know your partner handle everything from start 

People usually don't share what hurt them or their dislike regarding the person as smoking, drinking, etc at Beginning of a Relationship- JUST DON'T DO SUCH SAY IT TRANSPARENCY IS VERY IMPORTANT IN A RELATION

Some person Can't Express their Feeling In words but show by some beautiful tokens of Sweet love... Like after A fight They Take You to some Peaceful place, park, restaurant or whatever you like, But this doesn't mean they don't clear out about regarding fight or argument may be in short they say.. U better know your Partner so that's what matter at end

Don't Always jump Up To Resolve Sometime wait for Other person what they say After A fight like explaining Or apologize . 

Don't Jump to Conclusions & think your Partner Will Never Change: 

Dear it will take time perhaps 1 Or 2 yrs you will see efforts... 

If you really Love your Partner then complain with adding sweetness You know complaining in relation is an art just as a pro in painting... Well there is a right way for everything to be practically what you can say like Darling I am not happy aww what you said to me baby it hurts, please tell how to resolve, I want to listen to me with love- You can also use your body language as holding his/her hands, hugging him or even in long distance relations. 

Yeah it's Ok if you Really feel That your partner is not going to change... But before leaving A relation analyse your mistakes well... 

If you really love your partner then in every fight you must see your mistakes too & also communicate those with your partner- because only saying one person mistakes may make him feel all alone wrong and also may think of himself/herself not worthy to you- Make All Efforts To Draw Your Partner Closer by these Practical things you notice In your relation..

Ultimately love is what mutual, you can't let go a person if most things are good & just some so that can be taken care off.