Long lasting love tips for Long Distance Relationship
HOW TO MAKE LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP BETTER & LONG LASTING
You must have gone through so much & finding a right way to solve issues whether accepting a new long distance relationship or already in it.. Now you have came up to the right place rather than any ambiguous thing now you will see the mirror very clear going through this reading.
To rest assured any distance never matters if you truely love is a common saying but yes it's not easy but if you can flow deep into it you will worth having a long distance to a best partner as gift in your life.
Anyway you should look while choosing for qualities like similarities, a good nature cool person ( based on your choice but better a cool person because long distance angry people may turn into fuss if get angry quickly & not that understanding), loyalty as most important in every relationship shouldn't hide anything from you, understand you & you too understand that person is what most valuable.
People may have some variations regarding their master mind, approach towards need & life etc
These tips will really change your relation & turn you both as happy couple for lifetime & what you do & show to each other you are going to make it your future too remember:
1- Communicate Well- It's the fire factor needed to drive a long distance relationship... In an emerging new relation you should make it clear to your partner that long distance relationship is quite a bit tough & both will need a lot of effort to make it work... It will make you to think that to what you are entering to!
Communication should be both long ( when you want to make your partner understand never assume that without words they can understand) & short as when needed & should have clarity.
2- Take your time to get closer- When you are consciously letting someone into your life, it's a fantasy to think that yeah now we are in committed relation so let's just enjoy Nope wrong babes?! Remember a strong Foundation For A Strong Future Relation... After a week or a month people face fights & variation in thinking so don't Rush for intimacy..
3-Discuss your dreams & schedules of work- Discussing dreams ,wants, desires will not create any later issues as most couple fight later, also it draws you closer sweetly, you both may find some striking similarities so a connection spark you can feel..
*Schedules of work to be known is a must so You both will face Less fuss & you can feel free to call up
4- Disclose All About Your Past if anything bad or whatever- You Should never lie & as honesty is a best policy you know so Be Honest.. It builds trust in your relationship & bring you closer like a magnet as well as relieve of fear if he knows what will happen so better at par.
Also it helps your partner to open up about his past etc.
5-Video calls- video call usually after 2-3 wks of you start talking or more but remember when you are fully assured & you too desire then only prefer.
With advancing of relationship as years passby obviously you do it frequently to solve issues or while missing it's a good choice for a warm relationship.
6- Meet up- meet up or assist to hang out when you both feel comfortable with you time, it proves as a gold standard for a long term relation because you both get to know each other's behavior & attitude, choices etc & also how much they value you too.
7- Daily Talks & sweet messages- Talk daily and clear out if any misunderstanding or fight because any gap may only add up increasing distance and rift between you two. Also knowing someone behavior and thinking is only revealed best after a fight & how much the other person careful and wants to understand and resolve issues - so it takes patience and all love to go along but try to resolve fast & not so much harsh words taboo etc & sometime give them space don't communicate for sometime but never let 1 all day not talking it's will trigger the other person to do so is natural.
# Sweet texts let the other person that you miss him/her & show your sincerity, caring & love and also instill good feelings & positivity in your relationship.
8- Express Everything & Don't Fear but not always- analyse things well & act accordingly.
9- Talk intimately- Most people find it comfortable within 2-3 weeks but it's all your opinion what matters but those sweet naughty talks you should do at least after 1-2 months while in start of relationship & yes it's true that you should show your sexual interest towards your partner is a potent factor to make him/her feel wanted sweetheart! Also defining your such desires will make that person know your sensual touch how you like it so it will benefit you later & also it diminishes stress in your love life.
It also has psychological effect on both partners as they feel being attractive so diversion or physical attraction towards other people usually null but yet here what loyalty checks in.
Also after a long time relation you must frequently do that to keep your love ignited.
10- Hang out Alone- As time pass by you should hangout at some private place for 2-3 days & you both can do cooking & play funny games together just as normal couple visiting places and movies, shopping & many more while your stay.. It slowly occurs when you believe & trust each other you should hangout may be at a interval of 3-4 months or as you both plan while having free weekends or whatever but it should be mutual as sometimes you go to him & he comes sometimes so that no one feel like he is only doing it & you just grab on.. So keep It in mind...
11- Try to have a conversation Day- mostly on Saturday or Sunday it's very important thing but some don't consider & say we talk daily yes but obviously as a human desire in love there's a want to talk more especially in long distance relationship..
If You have Some Other Plan then tell it beforehand to your partner will ease things & they will not feel upset & ignored.
But at least In every month at any weekend if you give time to your partner that more than your usual daily talks it will make them happy & satisfied that you choose them to spend time.
12- Give your time if there's a fight between you two- If you have time try to resolve your fight in 1 day if not also don't stay & wait for the other person to lead it's a major thing that creates tufts in a relation and sadly most young couple are in this trend... Keep in mind your relation is always tender & relation is worth than a fight or argument..
You should talk to your partner after your work you come home or if it's actually late night...
Then write something simple and soulful like - "Hey I am late but I miss you so much you must be looking beautiful in your sleep, tomorrow don't worry we will talk & sort out love you."
To love & having a long lasting relation you need to be soft hearted for that person that's all what sincerity will pay you off in your future. Even though you are sleepy text your sweetie or hubby either while your way to home or when you reach or reach up & freshen up then text but leaving a sweet text is a heart capturing tool right.
13- Send surprise gifts through mail/postal- You don't need to have any occasion to surprise your partner show your love by any way specially something handmade by you will impress your partner, anyway know their choices then select. But usually if you have a loving partner then they appreciate no matter how small or big a gift is or monetarily value never matters in true love.
14- Sex ( when to have)- Well it's irony that most couple find it as very confusing decision. Actually as partners you both should respect each other's opinion whether to have or not because some want it before marriage & some not & some have issues regarding their sexual appetite much more..
The main thing is mutual desire is must & if you are not sure a little bit then don't do it because perhaps you may criticise or blame your partner & things can get complicated... Both partner should share their opinions openly is best thing.
But remember don't get into it too early.
15- Share about your friends, family & your social media too- It brings clarity and transparency in your relation & both while passing time being physically present at same place you should make your partner see your social media accounts or you both can exchange your phones just that time and laugh finding something funny but don't force it if your partner is not willing to.
Telling about your family would help your partner to have some hint of your family for future attachments.
Share events pics along with your friends so your partner knows them.
16- Talk about future plans or you take lead of telling your partner about what you want in future & how- Tell your plans and ask regarding marriage what his plans you will come to know how much the other person wants his future with you.
This also builds trust in you & your partner & it gives butterflies to couples as a sense of feeling so loved.
Also talk about your insecurities will help you both shape your future so in a correct manner.
17- Give Space- For a long lasting active relation there must be some flexibility. You should allow them to have it because everyone needs it to have some things to do like following their hobby or passion during free time or just to relax.
Don't become too possessive like girls usually curious about why he want to have time & they too end up staying upset.
Remember relaxing needs some own space & it will add up to your relation bcz after relaxing it uplifts your mood & a refreshment in way you talk will also get you happiness for both.
Also getting or making available for someone all the time is not good.
You shouldn't deny meeting friends or hanging out with them just for sake of talking to your bf/gf, sometimes it's ok though.
*Schedules of work to be known is a must so You both will face Less fuss & you can feel free to call up
4- Disclose All About Your Past if anything bad or whatever- You Should never lie & as honesty is a best policy you know so Be Honest.. It builds trust in your relationship & bring you closer like a magnet as well as relieve of fear if he knows what will happen so better at par.
Also it helps your partner to open up about his past etc.
5-Video calls- video call usually after 2-3 wks of you start talking or more but remember when you are fully assured & you too desire then only prefer.
With advancing of relationship as years passby obviously you do it frequently to solve issues or while missing it's a good choice for a warm relationship.
6- Meet up- meet up or assist to hang out when you both feel comfortable with you time, it proves as a gold standard for a long term relation because you both get to know each other's behavior & attitude, choices etc & also how much they value you too.
7- Daily Talks & sweet messages- Talk daily and clear out if any misunderstanding or fight because any gap may only add up increasing distance and rift between you two. Also knowing someone behavior and thinking is only revealed best after a fight & how much the other person careful and wants to understand and resolve issues - so it takes patience and all love to go along but try to resolve fast & not so much harsh words taboo etc & sometime give them space don't communicate for sometime but never let 1 all day not talking it's will trigger the other person to do so is natural.
# Sweet texts let the other person that you miss him/her & show your sincerity, caring & love and also instill good feelings & positivity in your relationship.
8- Express Everything & Don't Fear but not always- analyse things well & act accordingly.
9- Talk intimately- Most people find it comfortable within 2-3 weeks but it's all your opinion what matters but those sweet naughty talks you should do at least after 1-2 months while in start of relationship & yes it's true that you should show your sexual interest towards your partner is a potent factor to make him/her feel wanted sweetheart! Also defining your such desires will make that person know your sensual touch how you like it so it will benefit you later & also it diminishes stress in your love life.
It also has psychological effect on both partners as they feel being attractive so diversion or physical attraction towards other people usually null but yet here what loyalty checks in.
Also after a long time relation you must frequently do that to keep your love ignited.
10- Hang out Alone- As time pass by you should hangout at some private place for 2-3 days & you both can do cooking & play funny games together just as normal couple visiting places and movies, shopping & many more while your stay.. It slowly occurs when you believe & trust each other you should hangout may be at a interval of 3-4 months or as you both plan while having free weekends or whatever but it should be mutual as sometimes you go to him & he comes sometimes so that no one feel like he is only doing it & you just grab on.. So keep It in mind...
11- Try to have a conversation Day- mostly on Saturday or Sunday it's very important thing but some don't consider & say we talk daily yes but obviously as a human desire in love there's a want to talk more especially in long distance relationship..
If You have Some Other Plan then tell it beforehand to your partner will ease things & they will not feel upset & ignored.
But at least In every month at any weekend if you give time to your partner that more than your usual daily talks it will make them happy & satisfied that you choose them to spend time.
12- Give your time if there's a fight between you two- If you have time try to resolve your fight in 1 day if not also don't stay & wait for the other person to lead it's a major thing that creates tufts in a relation and sadly most young couple are in this trend... Keep in mind your relation is always tender & relation is worth than a fight or argument..
You should talk to your partner after your work you come home or if it's actually late night...
Then write something simple and soulful like - "Hey I am late but I miss you so much you must be looking beautiful in your sleep, tomorrow don't worry we will talk & sort out love you."
To love & having a long lasting relation you need to be soft hearted for that person that's all what sincerity will pay you off in your future. Even though you are sleepy text your sweetie or hubby either while your way to home or when you reach or reach up & freshen up then text but leaving a sweet text is a heart capturing tool right.
13- Send surprise gifts through mail/postal- You don't need to have any occasion to surprise your partner show your love by any way specially something handmade by you will impress your partner, anyway know their choices then select. But usually if you have a loving partner then they appreciate no matter how small or big a gift is or monetarily value never matters in true love.
14- Sex ( when to have)- Well it's irony that most couple find it as very confusing decision. Actually as partners you both should respect each other's opinion whether to have or not because some want it before marriage & some not & some have issues regarding their sexual appetite much more..
The main thing is mutual desire is must & if you are not sure a little bit then don't do it because perhaps you may criticise or blame your partner & things can get complicated... Both partner should share their opinions openly is best thing.
But remember don't get into it too early.
15- Share about your friends, family & your social media too- It brings clarity and transparency in your relation & both while passing time being physically present at same place you should make your partner see your social media accounts or you both can exchange your phones just that time and laugh finding something funny but don't force it if your partner is not willing to.
Telling about your family would help your partner to have some hint of your family for future attachments.
Share events pics along with your friends so your partner knows them.
16- Talk about future plans or you take lead of telling your partner about what you want in future & how- Tell your plans and ask regarding marriage what his plans you will come to know how much the other person wants his future with you.
This also builds trust in you & your partner & it gives butterflies to couples as a sense of feeling so loved.
Also talk about your insecurities will help you both shape your future so in a correct manner.
17- Give Space- For a long lasting active relation there must be some flexibility. You should allow them to have it because everyone needs it to have some things to do like following their hobby or passion during free time or just to relax.
Don't become too possessive like girls usually curious about why he want to have time & they too end up staying upset.
Remember relaxing needs some own space & it will add up to your relation bcz after relaxing it uplifts your mood & a refreshment in way you talk will also get you happiness for both.
Also getting or making available for someone all the time is not good.
You shouldn't deny meeting friends or hanging out with them just for sake of talking to your bf/gf, sometimes it's ok though.
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