Love & Anger balancing- A new world of love
HOW ANGER TURNED TO NO ANGER IN LOVE:
In every relationship anger has actually a unique place. Most people think it as a negative emotion but is it really negativity? The way we used to think depends on what we have been said or taught since childhood.
If I say anger is also positive & it's a way of loving can you believe! Well you find it tough because you have related anger to negative acts not emotion truly.
While I say a word Anger what pictures come to your mind? - You must be imagining something harsh most people do as beating & fighting of couples..
So what we learn since childhood is deep rooted in our thinking patterns.
May be you have never read somewhere but you will know details & secrets of dealing with anger & from today you will change your life regarding Anger.
First believe you can change you will definitely now turn your life into magic.
First believe you can change you will definitely now turn your life into magic.
1- Accept the person- The best way to deal in love is know yourself & your anger type too then secondly, the other person whether he's angry type i.e. got quickly angry & when.
Often women repeatedly say things this or that which is annoying for men.
Mostly ladies never see any timing factor, but sometimes it may happen suddenly even though it's not your fault.
Well sometimes that may be the case due to misunderstanding like you are normally just asking, but he barks out .
Chill in such cases perhaps you too got angry then so leave the topic for sometime & remember that may be you suddenly don't realise but initially it's your fault too because a bf / husband may be in good mood so when you ask their mood sweft... So TIMING IS A IMPORTANT FACTOR WATCH IT.
If you have time then go talk to him/ her ( don't feel any EGO issue) & politely say them.
2- After knowing how the person is what to do next- You know your partner better than anyone & their behavior patterns so choose the right way.
Now which way you like out of these 2 pics?
No matter how much fierce anger is see for signs in love relationship like:
a) IF HE/SHE LISTENS TO YOU MAY BE SAME DAY OR NEXT DAY- Then it is Good because more than 2 days is not Good if they avoid completely, it will be difficult.
Never start directly with that matter first talk about there whereabouts or how's their day, then tell politely with all your emotions should be shown to him/her warmly.
b) IF HE/SHE JUST WANNA LEAVE THAT TOPIC- If this is the case then clearly tell them that you will politely just talk & you just want to be heard & understand because everybody wants this in relationship.
ALSO TELL THAT THESE THINGS ARE BASE OF YOUR RELATION and help you both unreveal each other so later there will be less fight.
IT will take few minutes to say these things, but it will gradually change your partner with time if a good understanding person.
EVEN THOUGH THEY JUST DON'T WANT TO THEN- The Smooth way Dear- Talk about Other things with Utmost Happiness And love & Make Your Partner feel Good Then Approach Softly With A Gentle Hug Or Pat & Say you Are Proud of Having Him or A gentle kiss then say from your heart with shortly describing whole thing ( you may act childish a bit as saying please please as a kidd it's a part of love no one going to judge actually it's good if they ready to listen to like it)
BUT SOMETIMES YOU CAN JUST LEAVE THE TOPIC IF IT'S NOT IMPORTANT YOU THINK & MOST MEANINGFULLY YOU WILL BE ALRIGHT - Because it's no use your heart felt stingy so consider.
3- Completely Ignore & Don't Want To Text or Talk- Most people become so hurt due to this habit of their partner.
It also has certain types or conditions like:
a) IF NO RESPONSE- Then just text whatever you want to but not so much lengthy paragraphs.
Use to describe just important matter with as much as 7-8 lines and One sweet text like I miss you Or love you- SO KEEP IT SHORT AND SIMPLE...
I know it's too difficult to handle and remember your Text depends on Your Partner- WHETHER HE/SHE UNDERSTAND WITH SHORT TEXT OR COMPLETE EXPLANATION LENGTHY TEXT -
b) EVEN NOT RESPONDING FOR MORE THAN 2 DAYS- Let alone such a person & you may not completely ignore but don't waste your time & effort if you have not done any big mistake & you can be forgive.. SO DON'T TEXT FOR 3 DAYS CONTINUOSLY & WAIT FOR YOUR PARTNER RESPONSE.
Remember it-
Also being angry is ok but completely ignoring is not a good sign & it usually deepens every time that if you keep on accepting such an act.. Definitely Days of ignorance will increase next time..
So try to make your partner understand that real solution only lies in communicating & also after everything gets solve both feel at ease.
LESSER The distance, MORE is the love..
From now on take anger as for solving of issues not to remain distance.
ALSO A LOVING PARTNER WILL NOT DO SUCH THINGS WHICH HURTS YOU MORE..
c) To be true if your partner keeps on ignoring you even after you tell your feelings then 2 ways-
Either adapt and don't get more hurt, wait and when they call talk as if normally you do.
OR
It's never good to hold thorns knowing it will prick... So you understand so act strongly & leave the person.
Ignorance is really a relation breaking factor.
4- Other way out- Some Partner may understand with some special effects like -
a) Doing Romance like Playing music and dancing with your partner
b) Doing meditation together
c) Watching something you both enjoy like memories of your marriage or your dating days pics or video clips etc.
d) Doing some meditation With Aroma Candles together
e) Going out somewhere then talk because only going out will not fix a problem right
f) Always try to solve as quickly as possible
g) Talk with your partner about their good qualities then approach
5- If both of you engage in frequent fights- Yes frequent fights make both you & your partner feel like love is faded or you can't make out & go along.
Many more bad feelings leave you heartbroken..
Their may be some true differences between you that emerge as a fight so here's a way to turn even your ending relation towards eternal love -
a) Make a list of priority level like- Only important things of relation like:
Blaming of your feminity or say self respect for women specially : But sometimes in little things you may compromise regarding this fact
You can only judge based on your thinking.
Respect: your partner should at least listen to you means they value what you want to say.
Freedom: You have your freedom to go meet people or in many ways.
Also your partner never create any feeling of fear so before saying you have to think 10 times is just insecurity.
Trust , loyalty & honesty- The base of a relation.
So besides these issues leave other things it actually needs to be understand by you when you truely understand what love is you know such things.
Comment how you felt after reading it & your queries at diptipravaglory94@gmail.com
Often women repeatedly say things this or that which is annoying for men.
Mostly ladies never see any timing factor, but sometimes it may happen suddenly even though it's not your fault.
Well sometimes that may be the case due to misunderstanding like you are normally just asking, but he barks out .
Chill in such cases perhaps you too got angry then so leave the topic for sometime & remember that may be you suddenly don't realise but initially it's your fault too because a bf / husband may be in good mood so when you ask their mood sweft... So TIMING IS A IMPORTANT FACTOR WATCH IT.
If you have time then go talk to him/ her ( don't feel any EGO issue) & politely say them.
2- After knowing how the person is what to do next- You know your partner better than anyone & their behavior patterns so choose the right way.
No matter how much fierce anger is see for signs in love relationship like:
a) IF HE/SHE LISTENS TO YOU MAY BE SAME DAY OR NEXT DAY- Then it is Good because more than 2 days is not Good if they avoid completely, it will be difficult.
Never start directly with that matter first talk about there whereabouts or how's their day, then tell politely with all your emotions should be shown to him/her warmly.
b) IF HE/SHE JUST WANNA LEAVE THAT TOPIC- If this is the case then clearly tell them that you will politely just talk & you just want to be heard & understand because everybody wants this in relationship.
ALSO TELL THAT THESE THINGS ARE BASE OF YOUR RELATION and help you both unreveal each other so later there will be less fight.
IT will take few minutes to say these things, but it will gradually change your partner with time if a good understanding person.
EVEN THOUGH THEY JUST DON'T WANT TO THEN- The Smooth way Dear- Talk about Other things with Utmost Happiness And love & Make Your Partner feel Good Then Approach Softly With A Gentle Hug Or Pat & Say you Are Proud of Having Him or A gentle kiss then say from your heart with shortly describing whole thing ( you may act childish a bit as saying please please as a kidd it's a part of love no one going to judge actually it's good if they ready to listen to like it)
BUT SOMETIMES YOU CAN JUST LEAVE THE TOPIC IF IT'S NOT IMPORTANT YOU THINK & MOST MEANINGFULLY YOU WILL BE ALRIGHT - Because it's no use your heart felt stingy so consider.
3- Completely Ignore & Don't Want To Text or Talk- Most people become so hurt due to this habit of their partner.
It also has certain types or conditions like:
a) IF NO RESPONSE- Then just text whatever you want to but not so much lengthy paragraphs.
Use to describe just important matter with as much as 7-8 lines and One sweet text like I miss you Or love you- SO KEEP IT SHORT AND SIMPLE...
I know it's too difficult to handle and remember your Text depends on Your Partner- WHETHER HE/SHE UNDERSTAND WITH SHORT TEXT OR COMPLETE EXPLANATION LENGTHY TEXT -
b) EVEN NOT RESPONDING FOR MORE THAN 2 DAYS- Let alone such a person & you may not completely ignore but don't waste your time & effort if you have not done any big mistake & you can be forgive.. SO DON'T TEXT FOR 3 DAYS CONTINUOSLY & WAIT FOR YOUR PARTNER RESPONSE.
Remember it-
Also being angry is ok but completely ignoring is not a good sign & it usually deepens every time that if you keep on accepting such an act.. Definitely Days of ignorance will increase next time..
So try to make your partner understand that real solution only lies in communicating & also after everything gets solve both feel at ease.
LESSER The distance, MORE is the love..
From now on take anger as for solving of issues not to remain distance.
ALSO A LOVING PARTNER WILL NOT DO SUCH THINGS WHICH HURTS YOU MORE..
c) To be true if your partner keeps on ignoring you even after you tell your feelings then 2 ways-
Either adapt and don't get more hurt, wait and when they call talk as if normally you do.
OR
It's never good to hold thorns knowing it will prick... So you understand so act strongly & leave the person.
Ignorance is really a relation breaking factor.
4- Other way out- Some Partner may understand with some special effects like -
a) Doing Romance like Playing music and dancing with your partner
b) Doing meditation together
c) Watching something you both enjoy like memories of your marriage or your dating days pics or video clips etc.
d) Doing some meditation With Aroma Candles together
e) Going out somewhere then talk because only going out will not fix a problem right
f) Always try to solve as quickly as possible
g) Talk with your partner about their good qualities then approach
5- If both of you engage in frequent fights- Yes frequent fights make both you & your partner feel like love is faded or you can't make out & go along.
Many more bad feelings leave you heartbroken..
Their may be some true differences between you that emerge as a fight so here's a way to turn even your ending relation towards eternal love -
a) Make a list of priority level like- Only important things of relation like:
Blaming of your feminity or say self respect for women specially : But sometimes in little things you may compromise regarding this fact
You can only judge based on your thinking.
Respect: your partner should at least listen to you means they value what you want to say.
Freedom: You have your freedom to go meet people or in many ways.
Also your partner never create any feeling of fear so before saying you have to think 10 times is just insecurity.
Trust , loyalty & honesty- The base of a relation.
So besides these issues leave other things it actually needs to be understand by you when you truely understand what love is you know such things.
Comment how you felt after reading it & your queries at diptipravaglory94@gmail.com
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